As you grow not everyone will grow with you.
As you do deep transformative work on yourself and transform some will watch in awe, splendor and magnificence as your light shines bright and others will see this new being emerge and wonder what happened to their old friend, the one who was private, who was a hurt bird, who flocked to you to complain and cry or to bitch and to moan, the one who faked it till she made it, the one who at times felt helpless and lost.
She’s gone. She is no longer here.
She is dead and as she dies a new YOU emerges like a Phoenix, like a butterfly and not everybody can get with the new you.
New You has different demands, different awareness, and different noticings of the world around you. You walk through the world differently.
YOU COMMAND. YOU DEMAND. You have CONDITIONS. CONDITIONS OF SATISFACTION for your life.
Conditions that were never there before.
Noticing #1: Haters will hate
Not everybody is ready for the 2.0 version of you.
You will know them when you hear them they sound like doubt.
They are jealous of the wins in your life and say things like I don’t see much of a difference or are argumentative, I don’t know what you are talking about, you really think people are going to pay you that much.
They are the people who have a dream deferred and have just watched you crush the first of many dreams and can’t be with your greatness.
Noticing #2: Old habits Die Hard
The old you doesn’t completely go away.
The new you is an expert of what old you sounds like and has a set of tools that you didn’t have before your personal transformation journey that support you in gaining traction on your old self.
When your inner critic pops into your head you have a means to silence her as opposed to before she could literally run the show on your life for days after days and months after months…
Noticing #3: Birds of a feather flock together
New You requires that her needs be met and will intentionally and magnetically attract those around her who are also crushing their goals or are actively engaged in the manifestation of their dreams.
You are surrounding yourself with people who for better or for worse are actively invested and working toward their dreams and their goals. People who are unapologetically in pursuit of their highest and greatest selves and will not stop until they are playing in that stratosphere.
I am not saying that new you has become “holier than thou” but what I am saying is that new you may shed old friends, may have outgrown people in her life and is now searching to associate and acquaint herself with like-minded manifestors that can support and champion her dreams and goals into reality.
This blog will be ongoing as I continue to generate greater learning on my personal transformation journey…..